When you're the more experienced or partner – start in bottom position with disadvantage: We all have a wide variety of . Inevitably there will be big in size and skill level among them – so don't treat them all the same. When you are more experienced or bigger – don't start neutral as you would for someone your own size or skill level – start with some form of disadvantage so you get more out of the session and work skills you might not otherwise work and at the same make it more . When you do this you can be in a room full of small white belts and still get a good . It's not about who you beat in the gym – it's about beating who you were yesterday – and starting with disadvantage is the best way to do this when training with you already know you can easily beat.